Kris Jenner refuses Justin Bieber’s kiss on

SaveSavedRemoved 0
Deal Score0
Deal Score0

If you’re in a long-term relationship, I’m sure you’re confident that you know who you are and how you’re going to treat your partner, but it’s okay if you still need a little reassurance that you’re the perfect match.

Next time you’re around your partner, notice how you feel. Do you feel the way you did when you met, or do you feel more love? Be specific. I know it’s hard to pin down, but put some thought into it. You won’t always feel this way the next time you see each other—your feelings may shift based on your partner’s mood, your current relationship status, or anything in between—but the underlying feelings should remain the same. When you recognize these feelings, it’ll help you differentiate between them and your feelings about your partner.

If you’re having trouble pinpointing what you feel—or if you’re new to this concept of evaluating yourself—here are some questions to help you get started:

Does your mind tell you that you’re in a relationship?

Why do you feel like your partner will make you happy, and why should you trust that feeling?

Do you notice it whenever you’re around him or her?

Does it always have to be love at first sight?

Does it scare you?

Don’t confuse lust with love. Lust is fleeting. Love is a commitment.

How You Feel About Your Partner Makes a Difference

If you feel as though you know who you are and what you want out of a relationship, then you should be able to recognize if you’re in a healthy relationship. Healthy relationships don’t just happen—they require two people who are willing to put in the work to make sure that they’re happy.

I know your thoughts might be similar to mine: “You’re saying that a relationship needs two people to work?”

Yes, I am. You need to be in a relationship with someone who is who you are—or at least who you think you are. While it’s okay to be introspective about yourself, you need to let yourself be who you are around another person. If you’re introspective and insecure, that’s fine. We all go through those phases—if we’re ready to let go of those emotions. But if you’re constantly going through “dude, I’m kind of a mess” moments, that’s a sign that you need to find someone else to be honest with you
From the Millennial perspective, “dating” may be a misnomer. The idea of meeting someone you like and getting to know them on a deeper level (online or otherwise) is more similar to a job interview than a romantic date. While those among us that have been in a relationship can usually tell the difference, the stigma of being “in the market” for a relationship continues to put doubt in a lot of people’s minds. But it doesn’t have to be that way. At the very least, it should be fun and convenient.

Be yourself.

Hey, easy for you to say. Sometimes I’m just a little too quiet, I wear ridiculously loud shirts, and I’m a bit too exuberant at parties. I have a couple of YouTube videos with a million views, but I’m worried that I’m like the popular girls’ dad—unless you’re looking for a rich daddy, you don’t need anyone like that. My parents may disagree on which is worse (too much or too little music), but they still adore me, even if they are occasionally embarrassed.

Dude, I have a closet full of dress shirts.

I’m sure you have a closet full of your own. Now is probably the time to figure out if they’re your style. Even if you’re not exactly into fashion, you know that a cool-looking shirt can make you feel confident and competent in a situation. If you don’t know your style or think your mom should know better, consider paging her. She’s still awesome, and hey, you’re going to be looking good all the time in the shoes you’re wearing anyway. It goes without saying that no one wants to get rejected for something that they don’t know. So dig through your closet and see what feels good. A solid shirt, tie, or collared shirt that looks professional is a sure-fire win with the ladies. I’m a big fan of blazers, but if you’re the type who needs to have your button/s undone, then just don’t worry about it.

Be nice.

I like to think I’m a pretty good guy, and I always try to be nice to people I don’t know. I treat people the way I’d like to be treated, whether that’s a hug from a stranger or a polite “no” that I give a potential date. It’s simple, but being nice goes a long way, as does having a genuine interest

We will be happy to hear your thoughts

Leave a reply

Enable registration in settings - general